RANDOM BUT WORTH IT

Rishika Bucha
3 min readJan 11, 2023

Important lessons for myself

Hey there, its 2023 and my first blog of this year too…btw wishing everyone reading it a hopeful and beautiful new year ahead(better late then never…..right!).

For me , This year hasn’t started so well and already feels to be full of adventures ahead. But am ready for life’s unpredictable ride:)

just here to write a letter to myself and to the world whoever needs it,

dear,

I know your heart is full of emotions , mind filled with questions and thoughts screaming out. I know you are trying your best to feel fine. everyone has seen you smiling , enjoying and happy but there are lot of BTS and that has made you who you are. It has never been so easy but you always gave it your best shot. Being nice has its own cost , but its on you whether you want to pay that or leave yourself behind. If anyone you owe suffering for is you and only you. That’s with whom your journey has begun and one who stayed with you at your worst. There is no book written ever that has a bad story, for some it is worth cherishing , for others its not their cup of tea. Similarly you my dear are not for everyone. No story , no person is ever bad, we see things with such lenses that makes it seem so. You have always tried your best and that’s all that matters.

Never ever question your beautiful heart that has done what it is meant to do i.e. sharing and spreading love. But never ever disrespect this love because when your cup will be empty no one will be able to see it and at that moment you will regret not respecting your LOVE enough!!

Photo by Rachel Cook on Unsplash

Just want you to REMIND some harsh but that’s the truth-

  1. BEING NICE TO PEOPLE COULD LEAVE YOU IN BITS AND PIECES SOMETIMES( if you don’t set your boundaries).
  2. YOU WILL HAVE TO DEAL WITH LOT OF YOUR WORST DAYS ALONE(no one can stay always)
  3. LEARNING THE ART TO LET GO IS A MUST( because that dirt for someone that you kept holding inside will ultimately ruin your soul)
  4. SEEKING YOUR PATH WILL LEAD YOU TO PLACES YOU NEVER WISHED TO VISIT (don’t go for else’s footsteps , instead try to build your own)
  5. BEING ALONE IS BETTER THAN HAVING PEOPLE WHO CAN SUCK OUT GOOD VIBES YOU CARRY:) (no one>>>> having wrong people)
  6. YOU CAN NEVER HAVE AN EASY LIFE IF YOU ARE TOO EASY FOR PEOPLE TO CONVINCE AND MANIPULATE ( it’s your life , make your own choices and decisions)
  7. ALL THE GOOD THINGS ARE PRESENTED WHEREAS THE HARSH SIDES ARE ALWAYS HIDDEN. AND OFTEN THE HIDDEN PART HOLDS THE SPOT OF BEING “THE MOST CRUCIAL”( hence, be kind to your heart)
  8. YOU ARE TRYING YOUR BEST AND YOU ARE HERE TO SHARE , SPREAD AND BE IN “LOVE”

From

One who loves you immensely

Keep smiling and have an amazing , cherishing and worth living year!!

Stay connected and take care of yourself:)

share your views and anything if you like to let me know , you can write to me on shespreadsmile@gmail.com

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Rishika Bucha

Spilling my heart out, letting my thoughts flow and trying to learn , evolve and grow!!