Will you do me a favour by gifting me something that you wear?
Whenever people ask, “what is the most beautiful thing in this world?”, everyone has their own perspective and answers, but for me it is ‘SMILE’. This smile is holding different meanings for different people , some hide their pain with a fake smile while some carry the pain with the smile.
We smile only when we are happy, are you sure? Is it true?
A smile is not a signification that we are happy , it also means that we are hopeful to be happy not immediately but definitely.
HOW TO SMILE WHEN THERE IS PAIN ALL AROUND?
Pain is something which is an essential element of life , so if this is stopping you , you can never actually smile .Whatever is hurting you , whether a loss , or someone you need to bade a good bye to or failures , depressed , loneliness etc. Such sufferings everyone has , just turn around ask any random person , no one will say they had never been through any sufferings. Those poor humans , physically disabled (actually differently abled), they too have gone through a lot , but whenever you talk to them , you will experience they hold a magical smile. Because they have a belief , a hope which gives them the strength and hence they show it off with a SMILE. Life will always be painful, you need to learn how to stay hopeful. If unwanted things happen , Magic too will.
I am not happy , why shall I SMILE ?
We shed tears sometimes when we are too happy , so why can’t we smile when we are sad ,as far as I know smiling is way easier and peaceful than crying. So just take a deep breath and flaunt your smile not because you are happy but because you are trying to be and fighting strongly without giving up.
I cry again and again , how to gain the courage to smile?
Crying is crucial ,because I heard it that until you cry all your pain out , you can’t smile purely and truly. So, cry how much you want to, until you reach to the smile the way you need to.
I don't think my smile is pretty , is it necessary to smile . because I scare when I have to ?
Smile is always pretty , you have the full right to flaunt it and proudly wear it. If you scare what they will think , when will you stand up for what you think. YOU are awesome and make it very clear, you are a beautiful flower trying to bloom after many sufferings and it deserves respect and love. So, gift yourself what you deserve.
Will everything be fine any day?
It will surely be , just you need to be hopeful and patient. Everyday can’t be good , but there is something good in everyday. Change the way you see things and everything will seem wonderful. Your struggles will be worth it , your pain , your tears , flashbacks, the scars……this hurt will heal slowly and steadily decorating you, at the end you will be standing strong and smiling brightly.
One day you will be thanking life for all your suffering and hurt. Its important because everyone of us should meet their stronger version, that cries openly and still knows how to wear a hopeful smile later on ,which knows that negatives gives rise to positives, loss hides gain too and break will ultimately MAKE
I will say suffer strongly, you will be PROUD of the result that will come out of it.
Today we all are losing the essence of the real makeup, the smile and just decorating our faces with artificial make up that just paints your face but the smile will paint your soul. It will make you a pretty human in-out.
HURT,HEAL,STAND,SMILE.
Lastly I want to say —Its all worth it:)
